I like to think that the act of communication is a generally straightforward act. You open your mouth, engage your vocal chords and the various muscles necessary to form noise, and words come out. However, we have all had moments where words are hard to come by because of the content of our message. These . . . → Read More: Condom Contract?
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By Cecilia, on January 26th, 2010  8 comments  Communication, safety, Sex  communication, condom contract, primary partner, uk polyamory society “All the romantic imagery of ‘true love’ that has since helped to idealize marriage in contemporary society can’t change the fact that marriage is essentially a property relationship.” -Sharon Smith Monogamists are Romantics Marriage is an achievement: a state that people aspire to attain, and often they feel inadequate if they do not conquer the . . . → Read More: Monogamists are Romantics By Cecilia, on January 12th, 2010 12 comments Monogamy, non-monogamy, Religion, Sex Engles, Idealist, Marx, monogamy, non-monogamy, Realistic, Romantic, sexistentialism, Sharon Smith A few years ago, when Janet Jackson flashed her pasty-adorned breast, Janet drew the attention of the masses. The event was termed a scandal, and according to Wikipedia, the incident spurred over 5,000 stories in major US publications, newspapers, and TV/radio broadcasts. The football-watching world was in an uproar because of the tit-interruption of the . . . → Read More: Wardrobe Malfunction By Cecilia, on December 28th, 2009 One comment Communication, Monogamy Explanation, Intention, Janet Jackson, lifestyle, monogamy, non-monogamy, Wardrobe Malfunction, Wikipedia Monogamous relationships seem to be symbolized by a yin yang —two parts that come together to make a whole. I am not saying that all monogamous relationships are this way, but monogamy lends itself to the idea that people are not whole without a partner, and that they rely on one partner to complete them. . . . → Read More: Yin Yang versus Venn Diagram By Cecilia, on December 22nd, 2009 5 comments Communication, Marriage, Romance, Sex annual contract, Free Love, growth, marriage, non-monogamy, Open Marriage, venn diagram, yin yang Apparently I am favoring prefaces lately, so I am going to go with it: there are times when I wonder if the collective conscious is actually at work in simple day-to-day events such as the construction of a blog. Today, I wanted to address question number three in the “Top Ten Questions about Sex-istentialism,” and . . . → Read More: Down To Fuck? I am going to make my first attempt at answering the jealousy question. What jealousy question, do you ask? Scroll down and read the “Top Ten Questions” posted below. If you are too lazy to scroll down, I would typically be inclined to say, “Sack up and do it, slacker.” However, tonight, I am feeling . . . → Read More: Jealousy #1 By Cecilia, on November 24th, 2009 One comment Relationships entitlement, jealousy, non-monogamy, relationships I promise this won’t happen often, but sometimes, a girl’s just got to provide a preface: Typically, I will try to write about some sort of legitimate relational topic pertaining to non-monogamy. However, this evening, as I sit at a bar I frequent and drink my favorite chocolate stout, I just have to rant a . . . → Read More: Sex Only By Cecilia, on November 17th, 2009 3 comments non-monogamy, safety, Sex hook up, non-monogamy, pee after sex, private relationship, public relationship, Sex Two years ago, the idea of non-monogamy was still just a theory in my head; I hadn’t conceived how to practically apply it to my life. I had many questions about non-monogamy that I wanted to answer before the theory could conceptualize into practical application, and I decided to begin with my romantic side, and . . . → Read More: What About Love? By Cecilia, on November 9th, 2009 One comment Relationships, Sex cake, love, non-monogamy, relationships, starvation economy Some people ask me some strange things about how I live my non-monogamous lifestyle. I will tell you how I answer my top ten faves. . . . → Read More: The top 10 Questions about Sex-istentialism By Cecilia, on November 2nd, 2009 Leave a comment Communication, safety, Security, Sex love, marriage, non-monogamy, Sex, STD |
I have always had a crush on Jay Gatsby. And I have always latently blamed the late, Great Gatsby for my initial campaign against traditional marriage. You see, when I was a fifteen-year-old high school English student, I couldn't help but advocate for Gatsby's cause and create my first critique on the institution of marital bliss. |
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Countering the Commentary
As a blog writer, I have embraced the excitement I feel when readers interact with me via commentary. You can see, however, that I have received very few comments, so the excitement gets sort of bottled up until I am notified that I have one. Today, my message box alerted me that I had one . . . → Read More: Countering the Commentary