The Scarlet Bonobo: A Primate/Human Comparison

The Sex Museum in New York City has an air of sincere, yet haughty, confidence about its subject matter—much like any other museum you will walk into. Yet it is hard to look at the contents with a strictly educational lens, so the experience winds of being a mockery of the museum environment standard.

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Condom Contract?

I like to think that the act of communication is a generally straightforward act. You open your mouth, engage your vocal chords and the various muscles necessary to form noise, and words come out. However, we have all had moments where words are hard to come by because of the content of our message. These . . . → Read More: Condom Contract?

Monogamists are Romantics

“All the romantic imagery of ‘true love’ that has since helped to idealize marriage in contemporary society can’t change the fact that marriage is essentially a property relationship.” -Sharon Smith

Monogamists are Romantics

Marriage is an achievement: a state that people aspire to attain, and often they feel inadequate if they do not conquer the . . . → Read More: Monogamists are Romantics

Yin Yang versus Venn Diagram

Monogamous relationships seem to be symbolized by a yin yang —two parts that come together to make a whole. I am not saying that all monogamous relationships are this way, but monogamy lends itself to the idea that people are not whole without a partner, and that they rely on one partner to complete them. . . . → Read More: Yin Yang versus Venn Diagram

Down To Fuck?

Apparently I am favoring prefaces lately, so I am going to go with it: there are times when I wonder if the collective conscious is actually at work in simple day-to-day events such as the construction of a blog. Today, I wanted to address question number three in the “Top Ten Questions about Sex-istentialism,” and . . . → Read More: Down To Fuck?

Sex Only

I promise this won’t happen often, but sometimes, a girl’s just got to provide a preface: Typically, I will try to write about some sort of legitimate relational topic pertaining to non-monogamy. However, this evening, as I sit at a bar I frequent and drink my favorite chocolate stout, I just have to rant a . . . → Read More: Sex Only

What About Love?

Two years ago, the idea of non-monogamy was still just a theory in my head; I hadn’t conceived how to practically apply it to my life. I had many questions about non-monogamy that I wanted to answer before the theory could conceptualize into practical application, and I decided to begin with my romantic side, and . . . → Read More: What About Love?

The top 10 Questions about Sex-istentialism

Some people ask me some strange things about how I live my non-monogamous lifestyle. I will tell you how I answer my top ten faves. . . . → Read More: The top 10 Questions about Sex-istentialism

A little about me.

I have always had a crush on Jay Gatsby. And I have always latently blamed the late, Great Gatsby for my initial campaign against traditional marriage. You see, when I was a fifteen-year-old high school English student, I couldn’t help but advocate for Gatsby’s cause and create my first critique on the institution of marital . . . → Read More: A little about me.

Hey everyone, I will be putting up my first post soon.

I know you are going crazy in anticipation for my blog, I will explain everything in a bit, hang tight!